About SextFriend

Founded 2016 · 18+ only

What SextFriend is

SextFriend is a free sexting finder: a live directory of real people who want to sext, listing the usernames they actually use on Snapchat, Kik, WhatsApp, Telegram, and Discord. You browse for free, post your own username for free, and conversations happen on the app you choose — never on our servers.

We built it because most sexting sites are the same thing in a different coat: stale username lists, bots, and paywalls that appear right when you try to message someone. SextFriend replaces that with a directory that's human-verified, updated live, and self-cleaning — every listing passes a human check before it appears, and the community's reports remove anything fake or dead automatically.

What we stand for

Real peopleEvery username is posted by a verified human. No scraped lists, no bots, no fake profiles planted to keep you clicking.

Strictly 18+Age is enforced at four separate layers, from the form to the database itself. An under-18 listing cannot be published or shown, period.

Consent firstAsk before sending anything explicit. Stop means stop. Anyone who pressures others for photos, details, or money is removed.

Privacy by designNo photos, no messages, no real names stored — ever. Your card holds only what you type on it, and you can remove it anytime.

The full picture of our verification pipeline, moderation, and safety rules is on the How It Works page.

Meet the founder

Jenny Lopez founded SextFriend in 2016 to bring her work as a journalist and sexual psychologist into one place. Growing up in a conservative corner of southern Utah, Jenny wasn't always confident enough to publish under her own name — she often wrote under an alias to protect her identity. That experience shaped everything about this site: the belief that people deserve spaces to explore their sexuality without giving up their privacy.

After finishing school and moving away from her hometown, Jenny grew more confident in her work and began publishing openly. Her writing — predominantly on sexual health and wellness — has been featured in major publications, and her guides make up the backbone of the SextFriend blog. When she's not buried in medical journals or interviewing panels, you'll find her running, competing ferociously at almost any game, or at a California beach with her dog, Yoda.

"It has always been my hope that my work can help people find confidence in their sexuality and themselves. Sexuality can be tough to navigate, and I never want people to feel shame about who they truly are. SextFriend is about inclusiveness, education, and a safe space for open and honest conversations."
— Jenny Lopez

How we make money

SextFriend is free and always will be — no credit card, no premium tier, no paywall. The site is supported by clearly-labeled advertising and affiliate partnerships, which never influence which listings you see or how they're ranked. Details are in our Advertiser Disclosure.

Our content

Alongside the directory, we publish guides on sexting, dirty talk, privacy, and app reviews — over 70 of them, written and reviewed by Jenny and the SextFriend team. Every guide follows the same principles the site does: honest, practical, safety-first. Start with the blog, or jump into a platform guide on Snapchat, Kik, WhatsApp, Telegram, or Discord.

Questions, feedback, or a problem with a listing? Reach us through the contact page — reports of fake or unsafe listings are handled around the clock.